The kind of pain you’ll experience during contractions can vary. It may feel like a thick band being squeezed around your abdomen as the uterus hardens and tightens for several seconds before relaxing. Some women compare it to severe menstrual cramps, others experience backache, but there may be a combination of sensations as the contraction peaks and then subsides.

Individual response

You may prefer not to use certain drugs during your labour as they can dim your awareness of what is happening; however, it is very difficult to know the level of pain you can manage without relief, particularly if this is your first baby. Some women are surprised by the overpowering intensity their contractions, others may find their pain worsen through fear and anxiety.

Analgesia, such as epidural anaesthesia can offer complete relief of pain, while gas and oxygen and narcotics help reduce pain to bearable levels. Many opt for no drugs in the early part of the first stage, then have gas and oxygen towards transition. Don`t be self-critical if you do need drugs for pain relief it isn’t a sign of cowardice. Remember, labour isn`t a test, and drugs may even be essential to deliver your baby.

If you wish to have full participation in your baby’s birth without dimming your consciousness of the physical and emotional sensations, there are alternatives to drugs for pain relief.

A clear choice

Find out as much as possible about the types of pain relief that will be available. Have a discussion with your doctor, midwife and hospital attendants, and then outline your choices in your birth plan. Be prepared for your plan to change if any complications arise.

How drugs affect you

Apart from offering pain relief, drugs can affect your experience of childbirth in other ways. Make sure you opt for the type that will help enhance, rather than detract from, the pleasure of your baby’s birth.

Drowsiness

This is a common side-effect of gas and oxygen, tranquillizers and narcotics. Some women enjoy the sensation of drifting, but sometimes this can make mothers feel they lack control A few women have become so lightheaded they were unaware of what was happening around them, and gave birth without realizing it had happened.

Dizziness

Pethidine and other narcotics can sometimes induce a feeling of confusion, or disorientation, and some mothers have even had hallucinations.

Nausea

The sensation of nausea is usually slight with gas and oxygen, but is quite common after using pethidine and other narcotics, and a few mothers may suffer attacks of vomiting.

Your state of mind can have a major effect on the intensity of pain experienced in labour. So if the use of drugs will make you less anxious and more relaxed, there is no point in depriving yourself since excessive tension can affect the uterus, increase your perception of pain, and lengthen labour.